How To Approach Girls in Groups You Don't Know, And Get Them To Think You're Great!

In this example I am going to use women in a bar. I will be delving into lots of other techniques for non-bar pickups, but for the time being, we’ll stick with this. In fact, I suggest you try the best places for picking up women that are not bars – they are way better than ANY bar and you’ll see a massive leap in your success rates with women.





It is well known, women don’t tend to go to bars on their own. They go in groups.





Approaching groups of women can be extremely daunting and if you don’t know what you’re doing, you can fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wild dogs they can tear you apart. I have seen men get sworn at, totally ignored and even drinks poured over them.





But if you do the approach CORRCT, then your success with a group of women can usually get you terrific results.





If I suggest approaching girls in groups I get LOADS of men looking at me as though I’m nuts. I realize that lots of guys probably don’t have the basic confidence to just walk up to attractive women they do not know. Do not fear, this can be easily solved. I will give you some simple tips.





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INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN A SHOPPING CENTRE





Step 1. Walk around the shopping mall and when you catch a woman’s eye, smile – more often than not, she’ll smile back. To start with you can do this just with shop employees. Even if they don’t WANT to smile back, they probably will. It will be good practice.





Step 2. Once you have gained confidence in making natural eye contact and a smile with staff, you could progress to other women there. I’m not suggesting freakish smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. Most women will smile back.





Step 3. Here’s where it might seem a little weird, but this really does help and practice and repetition will make it easier. Just say "Hi" with a smile to girls (and men if you like) as you walk around. It may feel TERRIBLE at the start if you are not that confident but gradually, after an hour or so, it will get easier.





After you’ve smiled and said "Hi" to 20 or 30 women, you will start to feel better (so long as you do not quit on the first negative response – this will happen and will happen when you’re approaching women to pick them up – you HAVE to learn to step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful with girls).





I know someone who did the "smile at women" technique and he actually ended up meeting his dream girl and is still with her 3 years later – how is that for effective!





OK, let’s assume that you now have the confidence or at least the guts to approach women you don’t know in a bar. Again, I don’t just suggest trying to meet girls, in a bar, in fact, the best places to pick up women are NOT in a bar – I think it is everyday places where you are not trying to compete with other single men.





Firstly, let’s suppose a couple of girls are sitting together at a bar. One is the ‘ugly’ one and one is the hot one! Go up to them and talk to them NOW! Do not waste time. Within 3 seconds of seeing them, approach them. Many people call this the 3 second rule and I must say it really does seem to work.





If you see someone you like, it’s best not to worry too much about the approach, or you’re more likely to work yourself into such a state that your approach will be ineffective or you will just bottle out altogether!





ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from the side or an angle from the front. NEVER from behind – IMPORTANT!!! If you go up to the group at the bar from behind you will INSTANTLY invoke a negative response, and they will be put on the defensive - for obvious reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side.